Kadank2 gw sedih bgt kalo mikirin, kenapa ya sohib2 gw pas jaman 90-z doloe, skrg jadi jauhh banged gitu. Apakah karena temen maennya uda beda, cara hang outnya beda, bahan2 yg diomongin jadinya uda ga nyambunk??
It's good to keep in touch with old frens and yet its simultaneously sad when all you've ever talked about with them are just 'plain basa-basi'...Bahkan kadank kalo i ketemu sohib lama i pas di smp and sangking uda bingunk ga ada bahan pembicaraan,yah coba aja dhe gw ngobrolin soal kenangan nostalgia jaman dulu. Ehh, gw pikir mah bisa break the ice kalo coba ngomongin kenakalan2 ama hal2 ajaib and kocak pas smp doloe, tau2nya sohib gw itu malahan uda lupa sama skali ama apa aja yg pernah happen. Nah kalo uda kejadian kaya gini, gw bingunk dhe, mao kesel tapi ga tega, yah bukan salahnya jg kali kalo lupa, memory tiap org kan beda2, cuman tetep aja kita jadi berasa unimportant bgt, kok seseorg yg kita anggep sohib kita yg palink deket years ago, tau2nya bisa lupa ama kenangan manis jaman kita sahabatan doloe2. Uda gitu, kalopun misalnya mo ngomongin current events of our life, rasanya jadi tertusuk, kalo sohib kita itu malahan cuek abis ama omongan kita and usin' this opportunity cuman buat ngomongin idup dia yg super asik skrg and ga niat or tertarik buat dengerin "bekas temen deket" -nya sharing2.
Slaen itu, buad para sahabat2 yg ended up ribut and perang dingin besar2an karena di betray, di back-stab dengan parah abiz ama sohibnya sendiri....well, shaitz happens. It's sad, it's painful and it's a major disappointment. Mungkin kita2 yg uda merasa di betray ama sohib sendiri, pasti bakalan takud untuk trust and cari sohib baru lage, uda takud buad curhat2 and cerita2 isi hati kita yg plg dalim ke orang lain...Yahh, cuman gimana ya. Mungkin kita perlu tutupin setengah mata kita, lookin at matters beyond the conflicts, tryin to remember and rekindle the good ol' times and how our frenship's has blossomed up. Emang kita ga perlu lagi deket and curhat2 tapi its better to forgive even though you can't forget. Pikirin aja, "hey, all these troubles actually makes me a stronger person". This process gonna be excruciatingly painful and difficult to do but hey, we gotta move on.
Emang kita ga live in the perfect world, we all know this world today is a very difficult place to live in, we are always judged by others and most of the time, there's misperception in tha judgement . Semua orang expect the best outta us tapi sometimes never show appreciation to reciprocate our dedication to tha frenship, it's unavoidable. So what can we do??
I guess time is the only remedy for this fallin apart frenship situation. The time will heal ur wound and givin you the rite moment to forgive ur ex-bestfrens. After all, a strong bond of communication among friends is wad we need today to make this world a lil' friendlier place to live in
It's good to keep in touch with old frens and yet its simultaneously sad when all you've ever talked about with them are just 'plain basa-basi'...Bahkan kadank kalo i ketemu sohib lama i pas di smp and sangking uda bingunk ga ada bahan pembicaraan,yah coba aja dhe gw ngobrolin soal kenangan nostalgia jaman dulu. Ehh, gw pikir mah bisa break the ice kalo coba ngomongin kenakalan2 ama hal2 ajaib and kocak pas smp doloe, tau2nya sohib gw itu malahan uda lupa sama skali ama apa aja yg pernah happen. Nah kalo uda kejadian kaya gini, gw bingunk dhe, mao kesel tapi ga tega, yah bukan salahnya jg kali kalo lupa, memory tiap org kan beda2, cuman tetep aja kita jadi berasa unimportant bgt, kok seseorg yg kita anggep sohib kita yg palink deket years ago, tau2nya bisa lupa ama kenangan manis jaman kita sahabatan doloe2. Uda gitu, kalopun misalnya mo ngomongin current events of our life, rasanya jadi tertusuk, kalo sohib kita itu malahan cuek abis ama omongan kita and usin' this opportunity cuman buat ngomongin idup dia yg super asik skrg and ga niat or tertarik buat dengerin "bekas temen deket" -nya sharing2.
Slaen itu, buad para sahabat2 yg ended up ribut and perang dingin besar2an karena di betray, di back-stab dengan parah abiz ama sohibnya sendiri....well, shaitz happens. It's sad, it's painful and it's a major disappointment. Mungkin kita2 yg uda merasa di betray ama sohib sendiri, pasti bakalan takud untuk trust and cari sohib baru lage, uda takud buad curhat2 and cerita2 isi hati kita yg plg dalim ke orang lain...Yahh, cuman gimana ya. Mungkin kita perlu tutupin setengah mata kita, lookin at matters beyond the conflicts, tryin to remember and rekindle the good ol' times and how our frenship's has blossomed up. Emang kita ga perlu lagi deket and curhat2 tapi its better to forgive even though you can't forget. Pikirin aja, "hey, all these troubles actually makes me a stronger person". This process gonna be excruciatingly painful and difficult to do but hey, we gotta move on.
Emang kita ga live in the perfect world, we all know this world today is a very difficult place to live in, we are always judged by others and most of the time, there's misperception in tha judgement . Semua orang expect the best outta us tapi sometimes never show appreciation to reciprocate our dedication to tha frenship, it's unavoidable. So what can we do??
I guess time is the only remedy for this fallin apart frenship situation. The time will heal ur wound and givin you the rite moment to forgive ur ex-bestfrens. After all, a strong bond of communication among friends is wad we need today to make this world a lil' friendlier place to live in
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